wtorek, 4 stycznia 2011

To survive

Maybe your life is quiet and simple. You don't have to face with great dangerous and problems. You don't roaming at suspicious places and have a fight. You don't play at a lottery. You haven't been cheated. You haven't cheated. Ever. Even in school. Even to your wife. Husband. Teacher. Boss. Goverment and Financial Department(and seriously, better don't play with them...) and police. Never buy on bargains. You don't try to catch a chance for fast "luck". That's good. Your sleep is healthy and who cares about rest?
Maybe.
But really, how many of us live like that? Sooner or later we all will be forced in some non-simple situation, either by others or by ourselfs.

So today few things you have to learn to survive.

1. Be a doctor for yourself

I don't say to do not trust a doctors, but in fact there are few without knowlegde and qualifications (well, we all like to cheat at exam. Medicine students aren't diffrent...). Why should you know at least basic of medical knowlegde?
Firstly, because you need to know serious symphtoms of deseases. Doctors just won't knock on your doors and said that you are ill. And in other side, to do not waist time at clinics.
And secondly, because when you will not have an access to uncle google, something bad could happend. And somethimes you just will not know what you should write to him.

2.Be a lawyer for yourself


Yeah, maybe all these paragraphs and articles aren't very interesting but remember this rule: Nobody ask you if you know the law. After accident there's nothing like "I didn't know..." Who cares. You were obligated, so now pay. Or stay in jail.
And law knowlegde is great advantage while more or less comfortable conversations with police and other goverment representatives. Without that they can force you to say too much before your true lair lawyer will come.

3.Be a psychotherapist for yourself


I mean, keep focus on things in your head and soul, because there's nobody who knows you better than yourself. You have to know how to deal with stress and what is the best for you when you get angry or depressed. It also good to know, what are the main symphtoms of mental deseases and when it is just reaction for stress situation and when you have neurosis. But be careful and don't make yourself believe that you are combination of neurosis, depresion and schisophrenic person.

4.Be an animator for yourself


Strange, but true, when you're sitting at bus stop and have too much time. A lot of people are bored all the time. Don't be one of them. Try to entertain yourself by mixing up some stories, jokes etc. You would be not afraid to stay alone, as many people still do, so you would be more likely to avoid stupid situation just to spend some time with others. And people who are like animator for themself are usually much better animator for others. That's important, too.
(to be continued)

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